tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post9154614328513223683..comments2023-10-26T06:11:06.959-07:00Comments on Why Can't I stay pregnant?: I survived my D & C and all I have to show for it is some lousy mesh panties.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-61965457402109066742013-07-02T08:27:01.409-07:002013-07-02T08:27:01.409-07:00Thank you for this post. Your title gave me a bit ...Thank you for this post. Your title gave me a bit of a laugh after finding out another one of my friends is pregnant. I had a D&C in January and its still hard to think about. Thank you for the smile. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-8999728850435649152012-03-29T10:24:32.849-07:002012-03-29T10:24:32.849-07:00I too just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. I feel so...I too just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. I feel so lost I never thought it would be this hard. I wrote this poem for my baby and I hope it gives some of you comfort as well.<br /> Our little angel <br /><br />We will never fully understand why<br />We will never be able to hear your cry<br />We will never see your precious face<br />We will never feel your warm embrace<br />We will never call you by your name<br />Life for us will never be the same<br />We will never hear your little voice<br />this is not ours but gods choice<br />We will never know if you are a girl or a boy<br />We will never be able to hold our little bundle of joy<br />We will neer know the color of your hair<br />our hearts are so heavy its just not fair<br />Then we hear god speak to us never say never<br />For I hold your baby in heaven forever<br />When you get here you will understand why<br />Please stay strong and do not cry<br />You will see his precious face<br />You will feel his warm embrace<br />You will call him by name<br />You will understand you were never to blame<br />You will see the color of his hair<br />He already knows how much you love him and care<br />I will take care of your little bundle of joy<br />Someday you will see our little girl or boy<br />His purpose in life was to be with me<br />He is now your little angel someday you will see<br />What peace it brings to your dad and I<br />To know that this is only a temporary goodbye<br />God will take care of you better then we could do<br />Your our little angel and forever we will love youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-32476200428411975602011-10-14T22:16:06.374-07:002011-10-14T22:16:06.374-07:00i needed that it feels like your alone after it ha...i needed that it feels like your alone after it happens. people keep telling me that its common and to get over it my D&C but it was 2 months ago and i still touch my stomach wishing and praying to feel my baby but theres nothing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-17866215119881321092011-09-21T07:52:23.213-07:002011-09-21T07:52:23.213-07:00Thank you for making me laugh during this horrible...Thank you for making me laugh during this horrible time. I really wish I thought of the mesh panties comment myself so I could put it on a t-shirt. I had my D&C last week and while it wasn't the greatest experience, I think it would have been much more traumatic for me to have had the miscarriage at home. I say go for the general anesthetic if they offer it; you don't remember a thing. The mesh underwear were a strange thing for me. I didn't want to take them off and I kept them. ??? Oh well, who knows why I do anything anymore. I'm just trying to pass each day without crying. So far I've been unsuccessful but I know a dry day is coming. Thanks again for the chuckle. - CandiceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-53304893220195600042010-10-17T15:47:33.069-07:002010-10-17T15:47:33.069-07:00I have to go in tomorrow...for a D&C. My body ...I have to go in tomorrow...for a D&C. My body has already morphed back into what it was before my beautiful baby. 12 weeks ago, I was walking on clouds. Three months seems short until you realize they were the best three months of your life and you will never have them back. I am not sure if I will ever be Carly again. I am lost. I am empty. I want my baby back.Carly A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06894362883383265246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-18683363180452875042010-10-15T12:44:11.885-07:002010-10-15T12:44:11.885-07:00Been there.
Done that.
Got the mesh panties to pro...Been there.<br />Done that.<br />Got the mesh panties to prove it.<br /><br />And I was wheeled away---very unpregnant.Lainey-Paneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07722187515774744428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-26948831647551304372010-04-14T09:05:05.206-07:002010-04-14T09:05:05.206-07:00I had my D&C yesterday. I really don't kno...I had my D&C yesterday. I really don't know how to express how i feel just last week I was searching baby names and now I'm not pregnant anymore. As I was waiting for them to take to the operating room all I could think of is that's my baby is gone and all I could do is cry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-40614234862718187862010-03-13T02:21:34.331-08:002010-03-13T02:21:34.331-08:00I feel your pain. I recently delivered a 16 week ...I feel your pain. I recently delivered a 16 week baby and wound up having a D & C because the placenta wouldn't come out. Worst experience of my life. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.amiehoaglandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00941833704549934410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-79794940042847489372009-07-24T15:11:36.396-07:002009-07-24T15:11:36.396-07:00I had a d&c peformed yesterday and I think los...I had a d&c peformed yesterday and I think losing my baby has been the worst experience of my life, not feeling pregnant is such a concept I wish I would be pregnant and having morning sickness right now instead of not having my baby but I guess everything happens for a reason and soon we will have another babyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-44416661927160650562009-05-19T13:13:00.000-07:002009-05-19T13:13:00.000-07:00Thank you for sharing your experiences. I just le...Thank you for sharing your experiences. I just learned of a loss (after 8wk) from ultrasound yesterday and need to decide natural vs. D&C. If D&C, need to decide general vs. local anesthesia (both sound bad). It's all terrifying on top of the awful sadness. I found this post through surfing. Your voice is more real than all of the generic web pages out there, and it's so nice to read your honest opinions. Do you still wish you'd done natural, or are you glad you did D&C? <br /><br />Good luck on your current pregnancy, my hopes are high for you.Mnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3574009255914040012.post-68314986273259985752009-04-02T17:37:00.000-07:002009-04-02T17:37:00.000-07:00I just went through this too with a similar experi...I just went through this too with a similar experience. You can see my latest blog entry. I hope you get pregnant again soon. So sorry for your loss.The Closet Therapisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09138262027540101507noreply@blogger.com